Eric will you take Helen to be your wife, to live with her after God's commandments in the holy estate of marriage? Will you love her, honor her,   cherish and protect her so long as  you both shall live?

       Helen, will you take Eric to be your husband and live with him after God's commandments in the holy estate of marriage? Will you love him,  honor him,  cherish and submit to  him so long as you  both shall live?

[[[Will you love, honor, and obey him so long as both shall live? ]]]

      I Eric, take you, Helen to be my wedded wife,  and I do promise and covenant, before God and these witnesses, to seek with all my heart to submit to God by loving you as Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her. I will love you as my very body, so that I may  encourage you, comfort you, and care for you,  reflecting as best I can the relationship of Christ to his Church as your faithful and loving husband, in sickness and in health, in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow, so long as we both shall live.

     I, Helen, take you, Eric, to be my wedded husband, and I do promise and covenant, before God and these witnesses, to seek with all my heart to submit to Christ and to you, submitting to you as the Church submits to Christ. I will respect   and love you,  as your faithful and loving wife, in sickness and in health, in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow, so long as we both shall live.